BONUS POST -How to Start Showing Up as Yourself Again (Even if You Forgot Who That Was)

Midlife can feel like a disappearing act.One day, you're the woman juggling it all.The next, you're staring at your reflection wondering,“When did I stop recognizing myself?”

This isn't failure. It's an invitation.

Here’s how you start showing up as yourself again:

1. Stop waiting to feel “ready.”Readiness is a myth. You don’t need permission — you need honesty. Start where you are.

2. Get curious about what feels good.What lights you up? What drains you?The smallest spark — a song, a walk, a morning routine — can reignite your connection to you.

3. Let go of who you thought you had to be.That version of you who held it all together? She got you here.But she doesn’t have to carry it all anymore.

4. Speak up, even when your voice shakes.Your truth is your medicine. Start sharing it — in a journal, in a conversation, in a post. The more you express, the more you return to yourself.

5. Join a space where becoming is celebrated.Surround yourself with women doing the work.That’s exactly why I created the Chaos to Confidence Book Club —To help you return to who you’ve always been underneath the noise.

Share one way you’re showing up differently now — in your life, your work, or your energy. I’d love to hear it.

📚 And if you haven’t joined the book club yet, you can do that right here.

You’re not too late.You’re right on time.

And who you’re becoming is powerful.